Giving isn’t just good for the world—it may be the secret to preserving multi-generational wealth.
It’s often said that family and money don’t mix well. Peter J. Klein, CFA®, author, challenges that notion. He literally wrote the book, A Passion for Giving, on the topic, providing practical guidelines to leverage family wealth for impactful philanthropy. Klein illustrates why giving is not just good for the world, but also integral to nurturing healthy family dynamics—and may even be the secret sauce to preserving multi-generational wealth.
MISSION PHILANTHROPY
Oftentimes as individuals build capital, they begin exploring how to leverage that wealth to make a meaningful impact that’s aligned with their values, while leaving a lasting legacy.
The first step is crafting a philanthropic family mission statement. Klein recommends getting started by gathering multiple generations together in a values-oriented conversation. “Discuss the problems that spark passion amongst members of the family. We use a Venn diagram tool to map out the intersecting values of those seated at the table.” To facilitate a constructive conversation, pose some of these questions:
The resulting statement should be a tool that clearly, simply and directly answers the question,
“What does your family’s philanthropic efforts work to accomplish?” It should ultimately serve as your “elevator pitch” and help everyone stay on the same page.
TIP: This exercise can serve as a valuable investing tool. Klein says, “Take these values and apply them to guide which sectors to invest in. If, for example, you’re focused on environmentalism, you’re less likely to have mining and resource companies in your portfolio.”
MOVING THE NEEDLE
There is a trend Klein references, known as “shirtsleeves-to-shirtsleeves,” which describes the tendency for the third or fourth generation of wealthy families to overspend, resulting in wealth reduction. He believes, however, that giving may
be the anecdote to disrupting this cycle. “Incorporating philanthropy early on disrupts that paradigm,” Klein says, adding, “Future generations are less likely to squander wealth when they see themselves as stewards of their family legacy with a greater purpose.”
Establishing a foundation is one of the most impactful ways for families to leverage their balance sheets to conduct charitable work and make program-committed investments. In fact, according to Klein, there are over 25,000 family foundations in the U.S. with assets less than $20m. “While this approach is certainly for high-net-worth families,” Klein says, “you don’t have to be Bill Gates.” Regardless of how you give, Klein says, “We want to have an impact on a problem that we have the power to solve by bringing people together. It’s not about writing checks. It’s about writing grants that move the proverbial needle and holding non-profits accountable to meet the goals we set.”
To encourage family buy-in, it’s crucial to get the younger generations involved from the get-go. Klein recommends conducting site visits at the organizations you support and engaging in active volunteerism to strengthen those ties. The result of early activism? Klein
sees “these children becoming more responsible, gaining skills such as learning about balance sheets, how to manage a company, and ultimately, gaining empathy and a zest for philanthropy.”
THE FAMILY GIVING FORMULA
There’s no one-size-fits-all formula to achieving harmonious family working relationships, but there are best practices that can help:
TIP: Complement this document with a video recording that communicates the family vision so that future generations can continue to do work in alignment with those goals.
Wealth comes along with the opportunity to get more structured, strategic and pronounced with giving. As Klein says, “Making donations is nice, but it’s not to be confused with philanthropy. Philanthropy involves a mission to focus on. It means drilling down, doing the work and tasking nonprofits to be accountable to meet specific metrics. When the entire family works together to solve for a problem—that’s beautiful.”
Please reach out to one of our advisors for more information on philanthropic planning strategies.
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